It is said that “Birds of a feather flock together”, meaning that those of the same mindset, behaviors and morals tend to occupy the same circle. That may seem innocent enough but not always is that an innocent statement or an easy one to live with. It is natural to want to fit in and belong but at what expense should one want to be a part of something or some group or individual? Should it cost you your identity or reputation or even or spiritual welfare? Peer pressure is not just a childhood issue, even adult’s battle pressures amongst their peers at work, home and other social connections. Why is this? For the most part we fear the unknown and what is different from us. We want conformity and we want everyone to conform to our own ways, thinking and standards. For some it gives them a feeling of importance and others it makes me feel not so alone in their own life style and or habits that they set for themselves. What damages can peer pressure cause? Peer pressure can be the root cause of someone’s moral standards no longer existing. It can be the root of all problems between parents and children because the child decides to follow what their peers wish than what the parent’s standards or rules. For example, a mother directs her son/daughter to be home directly after school, but, the child’s friends convince him/her that it is okay for him/her to play with them at their home before they head home. Even though knowing what that child’s parent instructed that child to do, he/she chose to follow the suggestion of their friends. Most likely so that they do not cause a rif and that child’s friend possible be upset with them for not playing with them. However, the child does not keep tract of time and hi/her parent arrives home and they are not home. The parent not aware of where their child is begins to worry about him and her and is searching the neighborhood. Even though the parent finds their child safe playing, that trust has been severed some and now there is a break in that bond between parent and child. Another example, is of a woman out having a lunch dates with some friends. The ladies decide that after they have lunch they would go on a shopping spree because there is a special sale at the mall. Now one of the ladies is hesitant about going because she knows that she and her husband do not have the extra money at this time for such expenditure. She declines to go shopping and proceeds to explain why. Another one of the ladies is quick to say; oh it’s just another $20 or $40 that we will be spending. That is not that much and you can get some great buys that is normally $90 apiece. Just treat yourself some. And so she goes shopping. A few weeks later when her husband is budgeting the checkbook notices the charges at a store in the mall. When he asks his wife about the charges, she attempts to explain it the way her friend did. But her husband was not going for that explanation. That $40 that she spent may have gotten her 3 shirts and a purse which normally would add up to $120.00 but that $40 was part of the gas bill and now they were short making the bills for the month. Her husband now decides to not trust her with the checkbook or debit cards; and proceeded to give her cash as needed. Here is another example of trust broken. I may have only used woman or child in these examples but peer pressure also affects men as well. They have the same pressures that women and child and sometimes more. Who does peer pressure affect? Initially peer pressure really is affecting the individual that is choosing to following pressure layed before them. reason I say this is because they are giving up their own identity, ability to reason and make decision and entrusting that into someone else’s hands and hope that they are gently and not to crush their spirit. An individual crushed their own self esteem by depending on the thoughts and concern of others and not trusting in their ability to make wise decisions. Secondly, it affects the relationships between parents and children, spouses. Another area it can affect that we may not even think about is how on-lookers my see you if they realize that you are allowing peer pressure to guide you. Some may take advantage and pile more pressure upon, others may have no respect for you. One’s name and reputation is on the line when allowing self to be guided by peer pressure. Wouldn’t you rather be judged for your own decisions based upon your own standards and morals and not someone else’s? Where do you turn to when peer pressure takes a toll on you? 1Peter4:4 says “Because YOU do not continue running with them in this course to the same low sink of debauchery, they are puzzled and go on speaking abusively of YOU.” Our parents, spouses and other close relatives can be a source of encouragement and soul refreshment when facing pressure from others to conform to their ways of thinking and or habits etc. We can also seek out advise from our Heavenly father for guidance and wisdom. Moses comes to mind when thinking about peer pressure. He was the son of the daughter of the king. He held a high position already within the community and had access to power and to riches. But because his heart and mind was dedicated to the worship of God and the deliverance of his people from the hands of Egypt he left all that behind. (Hebrews 11:24, 25) I am not saying to walk away from life or, employment but to stay true to what your mind and heart sincerely believe and want. Remain true to one’s self and feel your soul smile and your heart rejoice….
Mz Lewis shares her thoughts, concerns and passions on prevalent topics today. This will be seen through blogs and poetry and a few short stories. Keeping you up to date on events in the arts and entertainment world. As well as taking a look at Creative Impowerment Artist Media, STAP.org, Youthful Expressions, National Poetry Awards and Paint-a-Rock.org
About Me
- Poetryizme
- Auburn, Wa, United States
- Charlotte Ann Langston-Lewis (Poetryizme) is the wife of Troy Poet Lewis aka P.O.E.T the Next Revolution and the mother of Hailee Langston-Nolze (10 yrs of). Charlotte a native of Seattle, Washington uses rain, thunder and lightning throughout the majority of her work. They are her favorite metaphors to work with and has become her poetic signature.
Sunday, July 03, 2011
Peer Pressure and its Effects on all Ages…
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
The Spot Welcomes J. Ivy. Call in number 347-884-8899
The Spot Welcomes J. Ivy. Call in number 347-884-8899
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Wednesday, March 23, 2011
The Art Of Conversation BROOKLYN Feat. Amun Miraaj!!!
Brooookkllyynn!!! Is baaaaacccckkk!!!! Let me start by saying the first ART OF CONVERSATION BROOKLYN turned out to be dope beyond all expectations! THE ART OF CONVERSATION is definitely at home in Brooklyn! If you missed it, here's your chance to redeem yourself! I'm bringing with me one of my favorite poets coming out of PHILLY... AMUN MIRAAJ!! This fantabulous event is being brought to you by WERDS OF ART from the lab...oratories of TORCHLIGHT ENTERTAINMENT!! Open mic poetry...open minded conversation....THE ART OF CONVERSATION!! FREE ADMISSION FOR THOSE TRAVELING OUTSIDE OF NEW YORK!! ****THIS EVENT WILL BE LIVE ON THE INTERNET VIA USTREAM CLICK ON TO THE STATUS UPDATE TO WATCH LIVE at 7pm***** TWO FOR ONE ADMISSION BEFORE 8PM!! The Art Of Conversation(Brooklyn)!! Wednesday, April 20, 2011 (Third Wednesday of every month) @Outpost Lounge 1014 Fulton Street Admission $5 TWO FOR ONE ADMISSION BEFORE 8PM Showtime 7pm-10pm Check out Amun Mirraji!: | |
Monday, March 21, 2011
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Sunday, March 20, 2011
FREE music and spoken word!
FREE music and spoken word!
Freedom's Ink has released an awesome 16 track FREE dl collection from multiple talented Spoken Word and Music artists. It would behoove you to click and get your own copy. Your ears will thank you!
Free Download** Submerged in Soul Vol. 1
Track list
1.C.E.L. feat Big Tone- Beautiful
2.Dawn Nicole- Smooth
3.Eryk Moore- Goodbye Lie Lullabye RMX912
4.Floyd Boykin- She Could Be My Wife
5.Gabbie McGee-Give It To Me
6.Joy Dennis- He Awaits
7.Karama Sadaka- Love Yourself
8.Mahogany Dust- Today
9.Monica Monet- Gravity
10.Paradyme (prod. by DaCloak)- Love, Peace, Handguns
11.Philasifer feat Amber Ojeda- New and Tru 2 u
12.Rachel Walker feat Tshombe Sekou- Falling
13.Sum-Thyng Like A Poet feat. Trezure- Reciprocity
14.Tarrey Torae- Make Music
15.Truth B. Told -My Testimony
16.Urban Voodoo- I Want You
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Minority or Majority? Which Mindset Do You Have?
I can recall in my high school days many successful students which were referred to as not being 'black enough' because they held a 3.0 G.P.A or higher, remained on the honor roll, spoke with excellent articulation and or had white friends. Why is it that a woman or man of color cannot hold themselves under their education and embrace their intellect in order to be considered a true part of the 'black community'? And if one is a in a gang, drug dealer or prostitute they are considered to be undedicated, unlettered and ordinary? When we look at the definition of 'black' as a color it represents authority and power. But of course if we looked in the dictionary it will state that black is stemming from evil characters or forces; wicked or dishonorable; ' black deeds'; ' a black lit', ' a dark purpose', dark undercurrents of ethic hostility, ' the scheme of some sinister intelligence bent'. Here is a rhetorical question... Where are BLACK people from? We are one of the few "races" that do not have a home. Some will say that we are from Africa, but we do not have any knowledge regarding Africa's tribes nor can we trace our heritage to which country. Most Africans perception of BLACK AMERICA is that we are laze and complain a lot. Most races can point on a map and state 'as a matter of fact' which country their heritage had its beginning. They have a spot on the glove that they can say proudly that people like the, RUN things there. BLACK AMERICA does not have such a place. This is where the MINORITY MINDSET was given birth. We never see 'us' in power or wealth. Other minorities which come from or just dwell in this country prosper, why is this? They come into our country with a POSITIVE MINDSET which is one that says they are MAJORITY. This mindset allows them to BELIEVE that they can and will accomplish great things and they in turn possess strong determination and dedication to do just that. To accomplish anything great one must have this mindset and never allow your circumstances to control you or your focus on your goals. Minority or Majority? Which Mindset Do You Have?
Back to the initial 2 questions: Why is it that a woman or man of color cannot hold themselves under their education and embrace their intellect in order to be considered a true part of the 'black community'? And if one is a in a gang, drug dealer or prostitute they are considered to be undedicated, unlettered and ordinary? When blacks do reach a certain level of success and wealth they are considered not black. They are said to be Uncle Tom Acting white. So instead of embracing our intellectual powers some have chosen to feed into that stereotype. Forgo succeeding in an education whether its making it through high school or obtaining a college degree or special trade. All in fear of appearing as though they are white and have abandoned their race. No longer being white. Intentionally failing out and choosing the life of the streets to brand them as a person.
Majority or Minority? Which Mindset Do You Have?
I can recall in my high school days many successful students which were referred to as not being 'black enough' because they held a 3.0 G.P.A or higher, remained on the honor roll, spoke with excellent articulation and or had white friends. Why is it that a woman or man of color cannot hold themselves under their education and embrace their intellect in order to be considered a true part of the 'black community'? And if one is a in a gang, drug dealer or prostitute they are considered to be undedicated, unlettered and ordinary?
When we look at the definition of 'black' as a color it represents authority and power. But of course if we looked in the dictionary it will state that black is stemming from evil characters or forces; wicked or dishonorable; ' black deeds'; ' a black lit', ' a dark purpose', dark undercurrents of ethic hostility, ' the scheme of some sinister intelligence bent'.
Here is a rhetorical question... Where are BLACK people from? We are one of the few "races" that do not have a home. Some will say that we are from Africa, but we do not have any knowledge regarding Africa's tribes nor can we trace our heritage to which country. Most Africans perception ofBLACK AMERICA is that we are laze and complain a lot.
Most races can point on a map and state 'as a matter of fact' which country their heritage had its beginning. They have a spot on the glove that they can say proudly that people like the, RUN things there. BLACK AMERICA does not have such a place. This is where the MINORITY MINDSET was given birth. We never see 'us' in power or wealth. Other minorities which come from or just dwell in this country prosper, why is this? They come into our country with a POSITIVE MINDSET which is one that says they are MAJORITY. This mindset allows them to BELIEVE that they can and will accomplish great things and they in turn possess strong determination and dedication to do just that. To accomplish anything great one must have this mindset and never allow your circumstances to control you or your focus on your goals.
Back to the initial 2 questions: Why is it that a woman or man of color cannot hold themselves under their education and embrace their intellect in order to be considered a true part of the 'black community'? And if one is a in a gang, drug dealer or prostitute they are considered to be undedicated, unlettered and ordinary? When blacks do reach a certain level of success and wealth they are considered not black. They are said to be Uncle Tom Acting white. So instead of embracing our intellectual powers some have chosen to feed into that stereotype. Forgo succeeding in an education whether its making it through high school or obtaining a college degree or special trade. All in fear of appearing as though they are white and have abandoned their race. No longer being white. Intentionally failing out and choosing the life of the streets to brand them as a person.
When we look at the definition of 'black' as a color it represents authority and power. But of course if we looked in the dictionary it will state that black is stemming from evil characters or forces; wicked or dishonorable; ' black deeds'; ' a black lit', ' a dark purpose', dark undercurrents of ethic hostility, ' the scheme of some sinister intelligence bent'.
Here is a rhetorical question... Where are BLACK people from? We are one of the few "races" that do not have a home. Some will say that we are from Africa, but we do not have any knowledge regarding Africa's tribes nor can we trace our heritage to which country. Most Africans perception ofBLACK AMERICA is that we are laze and complain a lot.
Most races can point on a map and state 'as a matter of fact' which country their heritage had its beginning. They have a spot on the glove that they can say proudly that people like the, RUN things there. BLACK AMERICA does not have such a place. This is where the MINORITY MINDSET was given birth. We never see 'us' in power or wealth. Other minorities which come from or just dwell in this country prosper, why is this? They come into our country with a POSITIVE MINDSET which is one that says they are MAJORITY. This mindset allows them to BELIEVE that they can and will accomplish great things and they in turn possess strong determination and dedication to do just that. To accomplish anything great one must have this mindset and never allow your circumstances to control you or your focus on your goals.
Back to the initial 2 questions: Why is it that a woman or man of color cannot hold themselves under their education and embrace their intellect in order to be considered a true part of the 'black community'? And if one is a in a gang, drug dealer or prostitute they are considered to be undedicated, unlettered and ordinary? When blacks do reach a certain level of success and wealth they are considered not black. They are said to be Uncle Tom Acting white. So instead of embracing our intellectual powers some have chosen to feed into that stereotype. Forgo succeeding in an education whether its making it through high school or obtaining a college degree or special trade. All in fear of appearing as though they are white and have abandoned their race. No longer being white. Intentionally failing out and choosing the life of the streets to brand them as a person.
Minority or Majority? Which Mindset Do You Have?
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
National Poetry Awards Invites to Voice Your Love for Poetry
The voting for the National Poetry Awards nominees has begun today!!!!
Come and be a part of poetic history and nominate your favorite Poet, Spoken Word Artist, Slam Team, Youth Slam Team and the list goes on.
We want and encourage you to put your voting powers to work. National Poetry Awards in Dallas, Texas August 19-21, 2011...
Voting deadline is March 15, 2011 through May 1, 2011 12am pacific time...
www.wix.com/poet472/2011npadallastexas
Come and be a part of poetic history and nominate your favorite Poet, Spoken Word Artist, Slam Team, Youth Slam Team and the list goes on.
We want and encourage you to put your voting powers to work. National Poetry Awards in Dallas, Texas August 19-21, 2011...
Voting deadline is March 15, 2011 through May 1, 2011 12am pacific time...
www.wix.com/poet472/2011npadallastexas
National Poetry Awards
2nd Annual National Poetry Awards is on the Move
(Dallas, TX)--2nd Annual National Poetry Awards moves to Dallas, TX. Around the country, millions share the love of creative thought and writing. Now, Texans will have the opportunity to host those same brilliant minds in yet another weekend to remember.
On August 19-21, 2011 the 2nd Annual National Poetry Awards (NPAs) will take stage in Downtown Dallas, Texas. Hosted by Award winning internationally renowned poet Michael Guinn from Irving, Texas, the NPAs are in need of a co-host for this event. Sponsored by The Liberator Magazine, Silent Myndz Entertainment, Creative Impowerment, STAP.org, Deep Entertainment Productionz, Sapphire Entertainment, Complexx Vision Mutlimedia, & Electic Media, the 2nd Annual NPAs has huge shoes to fill.
The 1st Annual NPAs held in Raleigh, North Carolina were a resounding success. As a result, 2010 NPA award recipients continue to claim victory by receiving additional awards, introduction to other artists and fans, television appearances, participating in various book panels, spoken word and slam team competitions, publishing poetry in print, on the Internet and audio recordings, mentoring, and the list grows daily. The 2nd Annual National Poetry Awards will be bigger and better than ever overflowing the weekend with open mic forums, conferences, workshops, poetry contests, welcoming celebrations and the NPA ceremony. This historical event will give many silent voices the chance to be heard. Artists who utilize pen and paper as their sole instruments may not have had an opportunity to be recognized for their genius before last year. The 2nd Annual National Poetry Awards will do just that—provide a scene to recognize the poets and spoken word artists who were previously denied the chance to receive public accolades.
"The National Poetry Awards has been a dream of mine for years. I am excited that I have yet to wake because my dream came true last year and it is continuing again. I am thankful that every person I approach about the NPAs supports my dream," said Troy "Poet" Lewis, Founder of the National Poetry Awards.
Nominations of your favorite poets run for three months from March 15 - June 15 and the four nominees with the most category votes will receive 2011 NPA nods with voting being counted for one month beginning June 20 – July 20.
The 2nd Annual National Poetry Awards seeks presenting and media sponsors. Donations of any kind will be accepted and portions of the proceeds from the awards will be donated to art councils and schools throughout the United States. Tickets for the 2011 NPAs will become available in the coming months.
For more info on the 2nd Annual National Poetry Awards, Please visit the official website www.wix.com/poet472/2011npadallastexas or email us nationalpoetryawards@gmail.com.
Sunday, February 27, 2011
Friday, February 25, 2011
1st Annual Red Dress Affair
1st Annual Red Dress Affair
S.T.A.P.org is proud to present its 1st Annual Red Dress Affair conference being held in its hometown Seattle, Washington.
S.T.A.P.org invites all to come together July 16th, 2011 assist one another in the battle against abuse. Our communities are slowly dying by the hands of others and at times by ones own self. We do not wish to see our community stressed with daily life so as to destroy the another.
S.T.A.P.org is an advocating the empowerment and education against domestic violence, child abuse, elder abuse and self abuse ( drug addiction and or alcohol to name a few). Monies will raised to donate to an charity and or organization to be named at a later date. The funds donated will be used to assist with the cost of employment search ( clothing, resume and bio supplies, bus tickets and or passes) fees for housing application and education for adults and children. As well as assistance with medical.
Charlotte Poetryizme Langston-Lewis has given birth to this organization with the vision that we can fight abuse one person at a time.
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The 'Red Dress Affair' will be blessed with powerful guest speakers, spoken word artist and musical interludes.
Confirm your attendance today
Blessings to you and yours....
2nd Annual National Poetry Awards
2nd Annual National Poetry Awards
Dallas,TX- 2011 National Poetry Awards being held August 19-21, 2011 and all poets/spoken word artist and musicians are called to come home to the National Poetry Awards...home away from home.
Poets from all across the United States under one roof giving praise, love and respect for the arts. Troy Poet Lewis and his co-founder Michael Guinn have set out to give poet/spoken word artist and musicians a family atmosphere to embrace one another and educate, inspire and uplift by means of their music and poetic flow.
Artist will come home to their fellow artist and for some they will be creating a new foundation within the National Poetry Awards family. NPA's growing strong and is blessed with its second generation of artist being embraced by its first generation. Have you been added to the family tree?
Confirm you spot today as your name is already sketched into the pages of future history. http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=204065196270379
Poets from all across the United States under one roof giving praise, love and respect for the arts. Troy Poet Lewis and his co-founder Michael Guinn have set out to give poet/spoken word artist and musicians a family atmosphere to embrace one another and educate, inspire and uplift by means of their music and poetic flow.
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Confirm you spot today as your name is already sketched into the pages of future history. http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=204065196270379
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